Is There Anything Off Limits?

My father walking me down the aisle
during my first marriage in 2001

Is there anything off limits on my "tell it like it is" blog?  Yes there is!!!!  Before I blog I remember that once you put something out on the internet, you can't take it back.  I need to think about my children and that one day they may read what I have written.

With that in mind, I have made the decision to not write about my first marriage to Sydney's father.  She adores him and he has been wonderful to her throughout our marriage and after our divorce.   I don't want to hurt her so she will never read anything negative about him on my blog.

My love for Sydney is stronger than any negative feelings that I may have about him.  One day when she is older, she will ask for the story behind her parent's divorce.  At that point, I will allow her father to talk with her about it.  I want her to hear it from him; I don't want to cloud her impression.

In the meantime, we all make our best effort to be a family.  Sydney feels that both her mom & step-dad and her dad & step-mom all get along.  We all try to do what is best for Sydney.  

She wants both of her families to go on a vacation together.  We are not quite there yet right now in 2013 but maybe one day, who knows?

Romans 12:18

If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.