A pricy start to a second term



  Isn't our national debt over 17 trillion dollars?  If our country is in that much debt, why are we spending millions and millions of dollars on a party for the president's second term?

When a middle class family has a mortgage,  car loans and credit card debt, do they go out and spend more money on a giant sweet sixteen for their daughter or huge 50th anniversary bash for their parents?  No, people in debt watch their spending.  They make cuts like no vacations or weekly dinners out.  They certainly don't charge a party on their already debt riddled credit cards.

I think that having a simple inauguration without all of the hoopla would have been appropriate in this current economy.  While Americans are staring at their paychecks wondering why even more money has come out in 2013 than in 2012, the government is throwing a lavish party.

Whether the inauguration was for a Republican or Democrat, it just makes sense for the administration to restrain themselves and keep the celebration modest.

30 Days to Organization


This is my 30 Day challenge to get my home organized.  Depending on the size of your home, you may need more or less than 30 days to complete your own challenge.

10. coat closet
11. kitchen cabinets
12. lingerie drawer
13. kids clothing drawers
14. backyard
15. linen closet
16. mom and dad's clothing drawers
17.under kitchen sink
18. kids closets
19. playroom shelves
20. Bookshelves
21. mom and dad's closets
22. desk and desk drawers
23. photos and albums
24. coupons
25. medicine cabinet
26. makeup/nailpolish collection
27. videos and DVDs
28. shoe storage
29. receipts
30. Sit back and enjoy your 
organized home!!!

For God is not a God of disorder but of peace...
I Corinthians 14:33

Sunday Afternoons



Our family spends our Sunday mornings at church.  After church we usually hit the bagel shop for lunch.  The babies and Aaron head in for their nap after lunch.  That leaves Sydney and me.  

We enjoy our Sunday afternoons together with just the two of us.   Sydney loves board games so we usually end up playing a bunch together in the playroom while everyone else is sleeping.  It really is our only time alone together all week.

Sometimes we head out to the stores together and do some shopping.  Last week we worked on her snowman project and the week before we went ice skating.  You can read the whole ice skating story in this blog post.

I am going to cherish these moments because before you know it she will have her own things to do.  I am glad that I take pictures of these "not so exciting" moments because these are good times I want to remember!


Sanctity of Life Sunday



We live in a time when it has become necessary to have a day dedicated to the preservation of human life.  A day designed to convince people in this country to value the lives of babies, the elderly and the poor.  

I have shared that in my own life, I struggled with the decision to continue a pregnancy.  You can read the whole story in this blog post (click here).  So I fully understand that the decision to continue a pregnancy is not always easy.  I can relate and empathize with those that are in a difficult situation.  

Many of you, like me, may have heard a message in church this morning reminding you that life is precious.  You may have also heard verses like


Psalm 139:13
"For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother's womb."



We had a church member share her testimony about her decision to have a baby even when the pregnancy was unexpected.  My hope is that there was someone in that sermon this morning who will remember hearing this testimony if he or she is faced with a similar decision.


I read this Article where a pastor shares why he hates preaching on  Sanctity of Life Sunday.  He hates that we live in a country where people have to be reminded that an unexpected pregnancy is a human life. That a child with a disability is still precious in the Lord's sight.  Society paints a different picture.  Look at the example set by our own President:





When the highest political office in our country thinks of an unborn child as a punishment, one can understand why we need a Sanctity of Life Sunday.  I pray that one day Sanctity of Life Sunday will no longer be necessary 







Not a clone after all...



My son, Lucas, is a clone of my husband.  He does not resemble me at all.   He is lucky that he will grow up to look like his very handsome dad!

When Ella was born, everyone said that Aaron had created another clone.  At first, I agreed.  But lately I am thinking that she is looking more like me.  I am not sure if it is just the curly hair but I think she is looking more like a Smith and less like a Delmanto.  Poor girl!

I am on the left and Ella on the right


Operation Clean Closet

When Aaron turned our dining room into a playroom, he built three huge closets along the back wall.  You can read about our dining room makeover in this post  It did not take us long to fill all three closets!

The middle closet was for Sydney's toys, games and craft stuff.   She likes her stuff in the closet so that the babies can't get to it when they are playing in the playroom.

As you can see from the pictures below, the closet is out of control!  I don't think that Sydney was able to find anything in there.


Before Pictures

















I began operation Clean Closet!  It only took about 45 minutes and two giant garbage bags.  


After Pictures














Can't Live WIth Them Can't Live Without Them


The word insurance is curse word around our house.   It makes both my husband and me cringe.   It is the no win situation.  

We are both super excited that my husband found a job- but as always, the medical benefits are a sticking point.  The company he works for only covers his medical benefits.  

So what are our choices?

1. We could just have coverage for him and the rest of the family goes without medical insurance.  We would not have any insurance cost but we would have to pay out of pocket for medical expenses for Sydney, Lucas, Ella and me.  My cancer visits and mammograms are expensive.  If my cancer were to return, we would have to pay out of pocket for surgery and radiation and/or chemo.  Ella has a milk allergy which requires her to drink prescription formula.  The formula alone costs $969.70 per month.


2. We could pay to add the four of us to Aaron's medical plan.  The cost for that is $1560 per month.  But if my cancer returned, it would be covered.

Aaron's old plan covers us until the end of February.  Even though Aaron will be working his new job on March 1st when this runs out, we won't be able to join his new plan.  There is a minimum 90 day waiting period for the new insurance to kick in.  

So our insurance cost looks like this...

March 1st pay COBRA at at rate of $1700 per month

April 1st pay COBRA at at rate of $1700 per month

May 1st Aaron will be covered and we will pay $1560 every month for the rest of the family to be covered.

For our family to have medical, it costs almost as much as our mortgage.  Does anyone else find this to be ridiculous?

I wish there was a simple solution.  Any ideas?
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